It's My Party (1996)

Emotional drama starring Eric Roberts as Brandon, an architect dying of AIDS who decides to throw one last party....the party of a lifetime. Knowing he has just a few days left before the disease renders him unrecognizable to those he loves and he, in turn, is unable to recognize them, he asks all his family and old friends and especially his former lover, Brandon (Gregory Harrison) to come and say goodbye. What starts out as a sad event turns into an uplifting, outrageous and in the end, life-affirming legacy!