I must confess I have not seen many Iranian films and so this was a little surprising in that of what little we read and hear in the western press, this movie told a perfectly 'normal' story that could have been played in many other western or industrialized country. Very good natural acting including the children. I must also admit I was a little put off when the film begins to get a 'little' American when people start blaming others for a woman that goes missing rather than have a character apply some logic as the reason of her disappearance.
Farhadi’s basically sketching the moral blueprint for A Separation here, but About Elly absolutely stands on its own. It starts off all sea air, old friends and casual matchmaking, then turns on a sixpence. After that, the crashing waves feel like a warning siren in every scene. Nobody’s fully innocent, but nobody’s a stock villain either. That’s where Farhadi gets you: ordinary people, one bad situation, and no clean way out.